Who doesn’t like the idea of
being happy every single minute of their lives? A happy person doesn’t
just stay happy, but s/he also radiates positivity to the people around
them as well. But, for you to be happy, you need to first and foremost
understand the meaning of “happiness.”
If you observe this feeling of
“being happy” closely, you’ll soon realize that it is simply nothing but
a state of mind that is accomplished by having a positive attitude
towards life. Not just that, it is also a result of the chemical
processes of our bodies. We are all equipped with hormones in our bodies
that act as our mood regulators. They help us feel happy, sad, anxious,
depressed, etc. There are hormones called “happy hormones” that give us
the ability to feel pleasure and maintain a happy state of mind. Lack
of happy hormones can make us feel cranky and dissatisfied most of the
time. So, how do we know if our body lacks the balance of such hormones?
Through signals! Our body talks to us by providing us with hints which
try to say that something is wrong in our body. So come, let’s take a
look at seven such ways which are signs of our body screaming that it’s
unhappy to us.
1. Eating Chips And Sweets
Have
you ever felt better after eating a packet of potato chips or a tub of
ice cream? This is a sign that your body has low serotonin levels, in
other words, your body is in dire need of some starch and sugar (1). And
once, you’ve finished a chocolate bar or a pack of Pringles, your mood
gets better. However, this happy state of mind is only short-lived and
you feel like hogging some of those eatables again.
2. Tenderness Of Breasts
Hormones
do not just affect the state of mood, it also affects our health. If
you’re a woman who is facing low levels of estrogen in your body, then
you may go through breast tenderness every now and then (2).
Though they say that it is common among women while they are on their
periods, it’s still a sign of your body saying it’s not happy.
3. Problem Of Weight Gain
Dopamine
deficiency in the body can lead to a lot of stress eating and
overeating (3). Even when your stomach is full, you’re still carving for
food. This craving is due to the lack of hormones in your body. If this
sign is neglected, you might consequently develop food addiction over
time.
4. Lower Levels Of Empathy
Studies
have discovered a connection between oxytocin and empathy levels in a
human (4). This love hormone plays a major role in affecting our moods.
And if one finds it difficult to empathize with another, then the person
is definitely facing problems in recognizing and understanding the
facial expression.
5. Frequent Headaches
Progesterone
is another hormone that improves one’s moods. And lack of it can result
in headaches and sometimes an even worse condition called menstrual
migraines (5). This is very common among women during pregnancy. These
types of headaches are also considered to be very painful.
6. Problem Of Insomnia
Low
levels of serotonin can not only lead to food addiction, but it can
also lead to sleeping problems. And if ignored, it can lead to the
condition of insomnia. We all know how cranky and out of balance we feel
when we haven’t slept well the previous night. Those who are always
under some kind of stress or those who lead a sedentary lifestyle are
the ones who are more prone to insomnia.
7. Unusual Tremors
Sometimes
there are these muscle contractions in our body that occur and give
rise to unintended movements of our body. Mostly, the movement is
related to our hands. This occurs due to low levels of dopamine in our
body. And these unusual tremors are also considered to be a sign of an
underlying neurological condition. These tremors are caused due to lack
of rest, mental stress, high intensified emotional states, etc. (6)
The
above-mentioned details clearly tell us just one thing — that we and
our bodies are the only ones responsible for our happiness. We need to
stop blaming others for not keeping us happy. We need to stop being
dependent on others to bring a smile on our faces. All that we need to
look up to for being happy is our own selves.
Observe your
lifestyle and try to understand is there a bad habit that is influencing
your state of mind in the wrong way. Get to the root of your own
physical and mental problems and remove the hurdles that lay on your
path to happiness. Share your thoughts on this. Leave them in the
comments below.